Guy's Code: How to Text A Girl - Make her want you in 160 Characters

Look, you really can not avoid text messaging these days... Just like face-to-face encounters, there are rules and principles to obey when
it comes to texting a woman. Follow these principles and you'll be nailing the "texting game" in no time at all.

Three Cardinal Principles of Texting

Principle #1: Apply The "3-Second" Rule.

When you've gotten a woman's number, IMMEDIATELY text her (while you are still standing next to her). For example, say, "Who is that hot chap standing next to you?"

This accomplishes two things

1. It verifies that her number is real.
2. It breaks the "first text message barrier"... and makes it
likelier for her to respond to you since you will be "familiar" to
her.


Principle #2: Demonstrate Higher Value.

Just as when you talk to a woman face-to-face, you want to demonstrate high value in the interaction - and not coming across as needy and weak. Therefore, you should NEVER send texts such as, "How are you?", "What you doing now?", "When are you going to be free?" and such.

Instead, be playful and don't be afraid of teasing her a little (while coming
across as humorous at the same time). Sending a joke is fine... as long as
it is not self-effacing.

Principle #3: Avoid text overload.

OK, if you are completely smitten by her and she is responding well to you, then it's natural to want to "text spam" her. Don't do it! When you receive a reply from her, give her some time to reply you. If you keep pestering her you might just freak her out. If she texts you, DON'T reply her immediately... or you'll come across as a needy geek totally in need of attention.

Remember.... being needy KILLS attraction.